According to Mwende, her relations with Nglia lasted for seven years, five of them in marriage. Despite that “the first days of our marriage were happy days,” Mwende said in an interview with LA Times, relationship with the spouse deteriorated after they were not able to conceive.
In 2014, the couple turned to doctors for help. It was a big surprise for both to discover that it was the husband who was sterile.
"So the doctor advised him to attend the clinic, but he never went," Mwende said. "Every time I reminded him to attend the clinic, he would dismiss it. He would say, ‘I will see if I will get time to go,’ then he would never go."
Ngila began to drink heavily and abuse his wife. On the day of the attack, Ngila promised to kill Mwende.
“I saw him, and he told me: ‘Today is your last day,’” she recalled, adding that “he threatened to shut [her] mouth for good" just before the attack.
Ngila, who has become the hated face of domestic violence in Kenya, is in custody awaiting a September 20 court hearing.
Infertility in Kenya is perceived as a disgrace, and women are often blamed, according to the World Health Organization. Some 45 percent of Kenyan women aged 15-49 are victims of domestic violence, according to data from the Gender Violence Recovery Center at Nairobi Women’s Hospital.