Data collected on Lybrate, a two-year online doctor database that connects physicians to patients through a mobile app, has thrown startling results about Indians and their behavior towards sex.
Lybrate allows users to post general health queries, consult doctors in real time, search for doctors in the neighbourhood, and book appointments online. Users can choose to remain anonymous for online interactions, which, in particular has been the unique selling proposition of the platform among its Indian users.
Lybrate caters to a very miniscule part of India's patient population with its 100,000 enrolled doctors and interacting with a daily patient load of 200,000. But it still gives a peek into the kind of health issues Indians are concerned about.
Lybrate's data shows that across cities, the most common questions are on erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, menopause, and low libido.
Children are taking to the Internet and pornography is often the first thing they find. The massive growth of smartphones across age groups has raised fears about misinformation among young kids, according to experts.
"If they (children) are learning about sex and sexuality mostly through porn films, then they're getting a very, very warped view because what they're seeing there is not reality," said Anju Kishinchandani, an activist promoting sex education among school —going children in Mumbai.
The silence around sex could even enhance the risk of sexually-transmitted diseases, including HIV/AIDS. Alternatively, a lack of openness could be one of the factors fueling sexual assault against women.
"This kind of taboo means people don't understand what sexual relationships are about. When there is a silence on a subject, then all kinds of hierarchies continuously get played out. And all kinds of stigma also (gets) attached to things," said Paromita Vohra, founder at Agents of Ishq, an online sex education project.
